There is always a reason. Embrace the situation and keep on loving.
It is hard to continue to love when you've been hurt. Your feelings are real. Especially when it comes to to the love of your life (or who you thought was the love of your life), friendships, and even family.
What do you do when you've been hurt? What is your way of dealing with hurt?
Perhaps it may be easier to look at the hurt with the idea there is always a reason. People can fade from each other. This doesn't have to mean it is a bad thing. It also doesn't mean we stop caring.
I am grateful for the relationships in my life. The ones that remain and the ones that have ended. Each are unique and have all taught me many valuable lessons.
This is one of my favorite poems and one I look to when life doesn't go the way I had planned.
Enjoy.
Reason, Season, Lifetime
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support;
to aid you psychically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
~Unknown
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